Dating Dilemma Why do we stay with "cheaters"

Cheating Quotes;

"Men are more prone to cheating, definitely"
Blu Cantrell

"I can't deal with someone wanting to take a relationship backward or needing space or cheating on you"
Taylor Swift

"I know all about cheating. I've had six very successful marriages"
Bobby Heenan

"For me working on the marriage and not making the easy choice of cheating was something that I could not do"
Al Goldstein

This is what I have heard from girls and some of my friends about why girls stay after they find out a man has cheated.

Girl A
She stays with the guy as he showers her with gifts, she has to pay no rent and he keeps her sweet while he goes out and has a good time, travels the world and parties without her. She wants love and is not so bothered about the lifestyle deep down but it's a big change and she is afraid to leave him. It's interesting how some of these men are able to buy woman with money and they lose sight of life and what love feels like.

What should she do:
- Leave him obviously and start a fresh, concentrate on her happiness money is not worth unhappiness
- Stay with family and friends and get her life back

Girl B
She is in denial that he is cheating and try's to ignore the signs of him cheating. She stands by her man and won't have anyone say a bad word about him. Deep down she wants to ignore the issues and hope for the best. She thinks he will change and that if she goes on as normal then it will be ok. You could say she is ok with it and wants an easy life.

What should she do:
- Be honest with herself and should tell her friends and family
- Communicate with the man and ensure he knows she is not happy
- Being alone more and having time to think of how she can sort the situation out would help / Alone honest time

Girl C
She stalks the man hoping to find clues but he never gets caught until one day she finds out or catches him and then wants to try and change his mind. She is sure if she makes better dinners, has better sex and stays at home more she can cure the situation.

What should she do:
- Be honest with herself
- Move away and be with loved ones
- Put herself out of misery and stop stalking

I tell my friends that not all the good ones have gone and it's better to be alone than with a cheater. Be strong and love yourself I am sure good things will follow!

Hanging around puts you in a bad volatile situation. Remember that love quickly turns to hate for some men.

Secret Female Blogger

XOXO