Dating Dilemma How to get a "Diet Coke" Man - How woman can get a man that ticks all the boxes

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Interview with Male hunk - I asked one of my best friends about what men want and how we as woman can attract men like him. He is handsome, intelligent, smart, funny and well taken, so how do girls get men that tick all the boxes?

Interview - Taken place in my living room over a glass of red wine

Q:What attracts you to girls? 
A: If they are adventurous, natural in looks, intelligent, sociable, dress sexy but have a kind heart.

Q: Now tell me the details of what you find sexy? 
A: Someone who is spontaneous and does crazy things, but not too crazy. Someone that will bring me into the freezing cold sea in England when it's chilly.  I like it when a girl is naughty and maybe winks at you and flirts with you where ever they are during the day, night or at work.  I enjoy it when girls dance and move nicely, hip movements and dances nicely on the dance floor.

Q What kind of body are you attracted to?
A)  I like a woman to have curves in all the correct places

Q) What attracts you most to a woman? 
A) Smile and her breasts

Q) Tell me about when you first fell in love?
A) I secretly loved someone at school and never made any moves

Q What makes you fall in love?
A) What made me fall in love then is different to now, then it was about looks and now it's more about the person. Looks first then and personality second, now it's the other way around now.

Q) What made you fall in love now? 
A) We were friends first and as we got to know each other more I fell in love.

Q) What advice would you give to girls to make him fall in love
A) Be patient and show care for that person, be a friend, don't jump into bed, don't push too hard for the person (be cool) but next to them

Q) What things make a guy notice a girl?
A) Nails being done but natural, don't overdo make-up this puts guys off, show your caring side, show you have friends and get along with his friends, dress well not bitchy.

Q) What turns you off? 
A) Vulgar talk, smoking, regularly getting drunk, shallowness, think to much of yourself

Q) Why do men pull away and come back? 
A) Because they want to know how interested the girl is

Q) How does this work? 
A) You do 90% with the girls and wait for the girl to do 10% like if you go for a first kiss and wait for the girl to make the last move, it's always the girls choice in the end.

Q) What do you think of a girl that is willing to have a one night stand?
A)  Not good for relationship just one night most men don't want to see them again

Q) How important is what your mates think?
A) Depends, you consider it but its down to you, its how you feel that matters

Q) How important is chemistry? 
A) It's crucial because its important for attraction, but it can grow based on getting to know someone

Q) What can girls do to impress a man?
A) Being giving and caring for others, showing adventure, just doing things and going for it, showing that you are independent and self sufficient, having an opinion and views, not having to rely on a man is quite good at first

Q) That changes thought, how? 
A) I want them to be active not just sit at home, know what they want, ideas, goals and it feels good that they won't completely rely on a man. Basically it's good to show men you have your own personality and thoughts.

Q) Describe what love is?
A) You care for someone more than you care for yourself, having your best friend next to you, a special connection, deep personal connection, deep understanding of the other person and warm feeling.

Q) What tips would you give single girls to get a man?
A) Stay calm, don't become desperate, don't show you are running after a man, be a friend at first and be yourself.

Secret Male Blogger

XOXO

That is it for today off to have a bath and a glass of red...