Tuesday, 25 February 2014

"Dating" Dilemma Why Men "Cheat" - Dedicated to "Tiger Woods"



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This is a provocative yet interesting subject from my experience. I will use real life examples of why woman think men cheat.

Sample Evidence 1)
Change affect
You met each other years ago and you have actually grown into different people. He use to like you when you were less successful, youthful and more innocent and even more ugly.
In this case he actually feels threatened by you and is afraid of who you have become. Perhaps he's afraid you have turned into your sister or mother, that he dreaded you would become like.

- You need to communicate with him and give him attention
- Some men act like pets or children you need to treat them in a similar way
- Don't give up it's not a lost cause yet
- Do more together and tell him how much you love him

Sample Evidence 2)
He is very insecure about a change you made in your life, new friends, change in job or weight loss for example. With this change means changes to your relationship. This has an impact on your relationship and he feels neglected and lonely.

- There is still hope if you ensure he's feeling more included
- Ensure you include him in the new things happening around you
- If you are very focused on a new job for example don't talk about it with him, this will trigger him off to become unloved

Sample Evidence 3)
A big change is happening with your relationship. You are getting married, about to have a baby or move in together.
Men go into crisis mode and this can lead to them getting cold feet and seek attention elsewhere.
- you should communicate doubts with each other
- only commit when you are ready and don't push the person away
- seek third party help someone you don't know who can help you both

Sample Evidence 4)
You cheat on them so they so it back as revenge, or they think you have betrayed them. Guess we are all humans and we make mistakes, however two wrongs don't fix things.
- You need to take some advice outside the home
- Space from each other after the incident can help or push you away, you need to take a call on where you position things.
- Brushing it under the carpet doesn't help, be adults and friends

Remember love soon turns into hate so if things get messy get out. Some men do react badly to any of the above situations so get out and stay close to those who care about you. Hanging around if it's getting nasty is not good for you.

Wipe those tears and remember it's all going to be fine.

Read...
http://nypost.com/2013/11/24/the-night-tiger-woods-was-exposed-as-a-serial-cheater/
http://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/2009/12/the-women-of-tiger-woods-full-list--pictures/
http://sports.yahoo.com/news/chance-start-over-match-play-004726610--golf.html

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