Dating Dilemma Quick Dating Guide - How can you have a good dating life - "popcorn and movies"

Quick Dating Guide ...

I have many girls say to me what does this mean, what does that mean, and how can I get my perfect man. It's a common conversation over lunch and dinner with friends.

Here are some rues around dating that I have picked up on.

Date One: You need to get to know each other, ask as many questions and actually a quick first date is the best. Just meeting for a cup of coffee puts less stress on the situation. Best not to make an initial judgement but I would advice to have at least three dates before you make a choice about ditching them or not.

Date Two: You can meet for a little longer still a day time date that does not involve alcohol is advisable so that you don't make any mistakes you regret. Up until the fourth date they should be set in the day and not evening.

Date Three:  You should start to think extending the date a little longer and try doing something interactive to get to know the other person - boat ride, walk on Thames, ping pong (Bounce is a good date place), food to share, and something fun like ice- skating or pool. You should start to think about the future - do you like this person? Is there chemistry? Can you see a future as in GF / BF.

Date Four: Let the person know honestly if you want to move to the fourth date or not. This can be an evening date - you can show a more sexy side and go for dinner and a few drinks. If it goes well go for a dance.

Date Five / Six - You should not put pressure on the situation and get to know each other more but let the other person pick the place and you may want to invite a friend along - it's good to get a best friend's advice at this point. It can help the situation and bring you closer together, they feel like a bigger part of your life.

Final thought: It's not good to get physically involved too soon as you want to become friends before you complicate the situation. Let's keep it old fashioned and innocent it's a bit like the movies.  Don't push the situation and give the person a chance as love grows over time. I would be suspicious of anyone moving too quickly.

Good 1st dates places - coffee shop's - small cute ones, busy locations
Good 2nd date places - walk out in the fresh air, pool, art gallery or museum
Good 3rd date places -  swimming, zoo, skating, walk, ping pong
Good 4th Date place  - drinks, dinner, romantic night out
Five/Sixth Date places - meet friends

What is your dating pattern? What are places you've been on your best dates?

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