Dating Dilemma What Woman Want - How to find your dream woman

What They Want! 
So this one is for men I hope you are all listening as this is an insiders guide to what we want. Hopefully you will take the advice and logic and turn into a big bunch of roses and lots of love...
All woman want different things - just to make things complicated we have a tick list of things we are looking for in a man, here is my way of putting most of these into categories.

A) She wants a bad boy and enjoys the chase/ maybe a casual thing She pulls away when you get close but comes close when you pull away
-You find yourself playing games there are highs and lows
-She is not wanting to get attached it's just about the chase and making her feel attractive and good
-She is looking for a buzz, excitement, adventure and someone who she thinks is big and strong and showing her too much smothering will make her run

What you should do to get this girl
-Do not play games - when you feel this is happening step away and show her you are busy with the life you have
-Meet infrequently and make it clear what you want as you need to make sure you communicate what you want (if you want no games then be clear)
-Try and talk and understand why she is like this - perhaps she had a bad experience previously and wants to push any man away / or a bad boy is good for not committing to

B) She wants to find the man of her dreams she dreams of romance and having a big wedding one day
-She has a tick list of her ideal things (good job, looks, money, ambition, nice friends) this can put a man under pressure
-She is devoted to having a boyfriend and you will be at the centre of her life she would do anything to get serious
-She wants you to meet all of her friends and family quite soon - she is open to going away on holiday and moving in quickly
-She wants to get close and intimate soon to mid term and thinks this will bring you closer together

What should you do in this situation:
-You should show her that you have different sides (good at sport, ambitious... so on)
-Try not to impress but be yourself as it won't work in the long term otherwise
-Show her that you are long term and tell her what you see in the future

C) The cautious girl who is not sure she wants to commit but deep down wants someone to hang out with
-She is cautious about men and their intentions
-She wants someone to hang out with but wants to take it slow - perhaps meet more men
-High expectations of her future boyfriend and wants to get the best deal
-You are not sure where you stand and she is not committing to anything

What most women want
-A man that they feel secure with and that can provide a future with them
-Someone who they can be good friends with and that provides chemistry
-Someone that is a little under the thumb but puts them in their place at times
-To feel special and attractive
-Not aggressive men
-She wants you to have nice friends that she can get along with
-Family person - to show her what kind of father / husband you will become
-If we know other girls like you it makes us want you more
-Someone who is not too keen but keen enough

How you should play it - What do woman really want? 
Respect
Show us through your actions that you respect our opinions, careers, interests, friends, bodies and minds. You don't have to agree with all that we say or do, but try to honor our opinions as valuable contributions. Follow the golden rule and treat us as you would like to be treated: Be honest, fair, kind, and considerate.

Romance
Just because we're staying in doesn't mean the evening can't be romantic. Light a few candles and see where the night leads. Treat us like your girlfriend, even after we become your wife. Date nights, making out in the car, kissing like when we first started dating—all of the things that made us fall in love with you don't have to stop just because now there are bills to pay, a house to be cleaned, and kids that need to get bathed. Bring home flowers for no reason.

Time
We understand relationships can't be all wine and roses; simply making the time to be with us and treating us like your top priority says "love" more than all the fancy gifts and lovely letters ever could. This includes helping around the house. The realities of a 21st-century relationship are that both partners probably work. If you happen to get home before we do, why not take vacuum the living room or throw in a load of laundry?  If you take the garbage out without being asked, chances are you'll be getting a big ole smooch when you come back.

Dinner
Of the homemade variety. You may not be good at cooking and you may not know how to boil water. But greeting us at the door after a long day with fish sticks (or whatever you can wrestle up) makes us swoon, because it shows that you've been thinking about us and our hectic day.
Good luck and let me know what you think?

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XOXO

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