Dating Dilemma The truth about on-line dating & the secret to meeting someone on-line

Why on-line Dating?
Guess that you reach a certain point or age and you want to try new things, fast track things, things that give you more of a chance.  My friend has been on-line for donkeys years and still not met anyone, other friends have been on weeks and found love. So what is the secret to on-line dating?!

Success story 
I met my boyfriend on-line after going on approximately 3.5 dates a week, that means that in nine months I met on average around 20 men, on average twice, and I liked something about most of them and only really enjoyed the company of one that I was fitting well with. When I met him there were no sparks at first sight, it was not like it was in the movies I just thought you are perfect for me. I only know that as I have met, kissed, dated and eaten with twenty other on-line potential men.
For me it was like every date got better, you started to pick more suitable delegates, every time you took the good of one and met another and took the good of them. So you took the good of each one. You discovered what you don't want is most important. You do this until you meet someone who has a combination of the twenty "good things" of all the other men and they make up your ideal match.

Not Successful 
Well my cousin has been on-line picking the men that say they will give her the world and more and they let her down. They tell her stories and she meets them and she walks away in disappointment, she does want a real looker so maybe that is the problem. Other problems are some men put fake photos up and they look like models so look out for these fake pictures. I very much doubt models are on-line. One friend was talking to this guy and he looked like a real hunk and actually he was a very old ugly man. Remember meet new men in a public location and bring a friend to come and sit with you so they are near the date for safety.

Funny Story 
I once bought my friend on a date and she and I both went to meet these guys, we pretended we were strangers, just sat next to each other and waited for our on-line dates. We would brief each other in the toilet and smile at each other knowing we knew each other.

Tips: 
- Write as honest profile and take care in doing this before you setup your profile (put what you don't want as well as things you need)
- Check others profiles and I tend to ignore the one's that have nothing to say about themselves
- Men that want to take things too fast be wary of just being friends at first is best and seeing where it goes
- on-line is not a vehicle to have s-x it should be a safe way to meet someone and you take the time to get to know them well enough before you become bf and gf
- Introduce the guy to a friend early on so you get some verdict sooner from friends

What do you think?

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