How to write a killer online Dating profile to make the boys fall in love with you

You should and should not:

• You should try and write a profile that is creative, witty, flirty and that is true and honest to who you are
• Tell them what you want and what you don't want, but in the least demanding way possible
• No selfies - Pictures of yourself
• If you have no baggage let them know here that you have it - be honest
• Originality is good, something that shows that you have a personality and are unique is a winner
• Show that you have a brain that will be interesting and start the interest
• Not too many photos 5 is a good number

What do others say attracts them to a profile

When asked what attracts them to a profile, most internet daters say honesty, humour, warmth, modesty, originality and good grammar (always re-read what you've written and use a spell checker to spot mistakes). If you use some, or all, of these, you will improve your chances of success.

The key to a good profile is to avoid statements that could apply to anybody, and to bring out your unique qualities and interests. Do you have a good anecdote about yourself? Recount it. You like cinema, so which films have you seen, and - more importantly - what's your opinion on them? Most of us "like music", but rather than a roll-call of bands, tell us which are important to you, and why.

Why You're Not Getting Responses, I've outlined two reasons directly related to your dating profile that may be holding you back: your "tag line", and your profile photo. If you don't have a profile photo posted, this may be the only reason why you aren't getting responses. Several studies - including one with eHarmony - have shown that men look at profile pictures first, and if they don't find the photo they see appealing, they won't bother exerting any effort into getting to know you better. eHarmony found the results of this study so conclusive on this matter that they went from not housing photos on the site at all, to requesting all users post a photo of themselves. It may not be fair or right, but that's the way the dating world works today.

Quotes from famous people that you admire, agree with or want to emulate are quite popular in tag lines, as are truisms and lines from famous movies or songs.

Hope this helps

XOX Secret Blogger