How should you play it after the 1st date?! If you are keen or not keen guide

After the first date you should do the following things if you are keen 

• Don't text him wait for him to text you if he likes you he will always send you a message ( trust me on this)
• Once he messages you wait for him to suggest the next meeting so be patient
• Good places to go to on a first date; Coffee shop, go for a walk and do something active - Keep it short and sweet

If you are not keen..

• Ensure that you reply to the message with a valid reason why you don't want to meet up again, it's just nice to be honest and nice to the other person
• Don't think of it as a bad experience you can take some good and some bad from and learn :-)

2nd date: So if you make it to the second date well done, here are some things to consider for the second date;

• You are still being judged by the second date, so make sure you shine above the others so he picks you
• Still be cool, don't mention the future or meeting again just be cool - if he likes you he will ask to meet you for the next few dates
• You should tell him that you enjoyed the date and you hope you can meet soon - But do not be pushy
• Keep the date fun, active and just cool don't get alcohol involved
• If you decide you are not into him after the second date, I would give the third or fourth date a chance - There is something I tell my friends about this is called the three rule date - wait for three dates and then decide / hasty dumping is not good
• Good places for a second date; Coffee shop, cinema, and something active ( Keep it simple for now)
• No kissing still

3rd date: So if you make it to the third date you must be getting on well, here are some things to consider for the third date 

• The third date you should still be cool but ask more questions about his life and family
• You can sit closer but still no kissing, keep him guessing this is good, easy is not good
• It's good for you to show more interest and suggest a place to meet for the next date if you are getting on well
• Keep it to a daytime date still and don't involve alcohol
• Talk about your life more get a little more personal

4th  date: So if you make it to the fourth date you must be getting on very  well, and you may want to consider some of these things;

• Doing something in the evening, is acceptable now - but don't dress up too sexy just make an effort
• Try to hint that you are keen without asking them out
• You should plan to do something to meet his friends or your friends - Introducing friends early is a good thing
• A kiss is valid on the 4th date
• Happy dating

Question: Is he a TW - Time waster? Make sure you end it after the first date if he will waste your time!

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