Dating Dilemma What Men Want Secret Life Of A "Single Man In London"

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Interview takes place in a cafe near Canary Wharf, he is wearing a smart suit and looking at me with a smile. Lets start the interview ...

About Him
Sex: Male
Age: 28
Born: Hong Kong
Location: UK, London
Profession: Finance
Personality: funny nice guy
Looking for: Serious girl and relationship  / Not keen on a one night thing

What attracts you to girls?

Unfortunately, stereotypical beauty. The face. The body. Cuteness. Smile. These are what are openly obvious. Once over the initial attraction, kind heart. Loving personality.

What does not attract you?
Smoking. Uncaring. Thinks she better than everyone else.

How can girls help guys fall in love?
Advise ways to approach girls. Insights in how they want guys to act/behave. Tips to get a second date.
What puts you off girls?

What's your ideal first date?
A good dinner at a nice restaurant. No awkward silent moments. Laughing at any attempts of humour. Nothing out of my comfort zone.

How do you describe being in love?
Spend the whole day thinking about her. Everything you do/you see/hear reminds me of her. Being able to open up to that the other person, wholeheartedly.

Why are men and woman so different?
Biology. Your fault is not with me, but God/creationists.

What is the difference between love and being infatuated ?
Infatuation and lust are the same. Attraction to exterior features. Love is having the same feeling about a person when looks fade, those initial attractive features disappear.

Describe the best date you had?
Watching a film, which is basically my best activity to do, with this girl who lent on my shoulder, meaning she was showing signs of attraction to me, for the first time. Then whilst leaving the cinema and walking to the tube, when she was walking right next to me, with her arm touching my arm.

Describe the worse date?
Haven't had one. Mainly because I haven't had many dates. Wouldn't go on a date without really vetting.

What do you recommend as the best way to meet someone?
Through friends.

What does it feel like to be alone?
In many ways, its great. No one to annoy you. Make you do anything you don't want to do. However there are times when the usual routine gets too much, when you just want someone to talk to.

Another question why do you find it hard to meet girls?
Don't like the unknown. Don't like things out of the usual routine. Think too much when I meet someone new. What they are thinking of me, do they like me, any point in any future interactions. If not, then why bother at the start.

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